08 November 2015, 22:31
C.E: How is the awesome, sweet, beautiful Duchess Today?
M: Wow! It must be a very pleasant Sunday evening. She is simply beautiful.
C.E: (big smile) Can’t I just hail the Duchess?
C.E: (face covered) I’ve really missed her.
M: awwwwwwwwww… she feels special.
C.E: She is always special. Feeling like it or not.
M: Yes, Captain Sir. Sir, yes sir.
C.E: C’mon. What’s with the military greeting.
C.E: My relative just feels that not all ladies deserve pampering. He feels many ladies love fantasy too much.
M: flog him. Flog some sense into him.
It’s tough enough to be a lady in a man’s world.
I won’t demand it. It’s my right.
Why won’t you pamper Dee Ami by default.
It’s a privilege for any man.
I am too strong for myself. Lol… if you know what I mean.
So if or when I let you pamper me, you should appreciate it so much.
You should even go out of your way if need be. Lol… I am serious though.
There is a saying where I’m from geographically…, ‘’Golds are sold to those who know IT
worth.’’ That’s it right there.
And I am Diamond. Oh glory!!! Which is more upgraded than gold, cos you don’t get to see
Diamonds as often as you get to see gold.
How many men engage or marry their wives with Diamond plated/concentrated rings? well,
there you get your answer.
It’s my right as Diamond to be pampered. Period.
C.E: looooooooooooooooooooool… Deeeeeeee!!!!!! I sooooooooo miss you
C.E: I’m imagining your facial expression while typing this. Now, you can write about a woman appreciating
herself first, then the world recognizes this, and does same to her. Wink
M: I see you!!! Wink
C.E: This moved you. See how much you replied.
C.E: How’d you expect me to flog him? He’s olderrrrrrrrrrrrr. I pray for him though.
M: Yes, he needs prayer.
Ok, the above conversation is 8months plus some days old today, which is the 22nd of July, 2016.
I have decided to make use of one stone, killing two birds. C.E suggested that I write an article, I didn’t feel the push to write one back then, so I waited. Still don’t feel like it today, Captain. Can’t wait no more. Smiles
I prefer to address this straight up (no article).
The few men who really know me personally, by now, know my stance. So I choose not to further express myself @man talk. I really, and seriously do pity men who still think this way@ C.E’s relative. Not like me take their feelings lightly. I do not.
Now my two pence to the ladies, Ladies!!!! Know your worth. Never go below standard for anyone, including yourself.
A real man should come upgrade you. Invest in your future.
Please Note: Upgrading shouldn’t always be about the Mr., adding more digits to your account. It should be more about purposeful investment (Potential, gift, vision, assignment. Etc.)
He should be able to respect you enough to nurture the Diamond that you are, so you forever sparkle; for as long as God permits. I believe we know how this works, ladies. For you to earn such respect, you must first, respect yourself. It’s really that plain and simple.
Let’s say a word of prayer for men who feel some ladies do not deserve to be pampered, C.E’s relative is the point of contact. I know there are tons of men out there who feel the same way. And please do not forget to pray also, for ladies who, frustrate these men sadly enough, and successfully create such unhealthy mentality, in them.
Let’s not hurt each other no more; producing unhealthy, bitter adults every day. *wink.
Men, do you feel some women shouldn’t be pampered? Ladies how do you feel about this? I feel some ladies largely contribute to C.E relative’s notion. What do you think?
I look forward to reading all your comments.